Just an addenda to this psychological point of view.
“Homophobia” is a natural condition in human being. It is intrinsically connected to the human nature and it is not a “psychological disease”, as the gay activists and our ignorant and manipulated political correct leaders meant to be.
By definition, a homophobe is somebody that repels any possibility of a sexual relation between him or herself and another person belonging to same sex. Period. A homophobe do not engage in violence against homosexuals; people who do it are criminals, not homophobes. As wikipedia put it:
In 1993, behavioral scientists William O’Donohue and Christine Caselles concluded that the usage of the term “as it is usually used, makes an illegitimately pejorative evaluation of certain open and debatable value positions, much like the former disease construct of homosexuality” itself, arguing that the term may be used as an ad Hominem argument against those who advocate values or positions of which the speaker does not approve. The social construct of masculinity is not defined by attraction to females alone but also by negative attraction to males. The addition of a fear of something unmasculine, given the terms scientific etymology, may be used illegitimately to imply that anyone with a different opinion is unmasculine.
The National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality, an organization affiliated with the ex-gay movement, describes the term homophobia as being “often used inaccurately to describe any person who objects to homosexual behavior on either moral, psychological or medical grounds.” They claim that, “Technically, however, the terms actually denotes a person who has a phobia — or irrational fear — of homosexuality. Principled disagreement, therefore, cannot be labeled ‘homophobia.’”
The term “homophobia” is, therefore, a bigoted coined terminology used by gay activists to stigmatize anybody that do not follow their cultural policies. As any term has an opposite meaning, “homophilia” should be its contrary, which means that ― following the Aristotle’s principle of the third excluded ― either somebody is homophobe or homophile. There´s no third choice.
When a heterosexual man got a no-go in a sexual approach to a female, he does not interpret her denial as an assault to his identity, rather he would think that her denial is due to his personal inability. This doesn’t happen in a homosexual side in relation to heterosexuality.
The gay social discrimination feeling is a self inherent psychological characteristic of gay condition. Any repulsive attitude from a heterosexual towards a gay sexual approach is considered by the gay agent as a form of violence, not only against the gay alone but also against the homosexuality condition as a whole. However, if a “gay macho” sexually repulses a transexual, this is something considered “natural” and “logical” from the gay point of view. This means clearly that, in gay perspective, the sexual repulsion is something exclusive of gay condition ― only gays have the right to sexual repulsion.
The exclusivism of gay sexual repulsion is a characteristic of a cultural elite that bases exclusively its personal identity upon sexual desire subjectivity, and upon hate on what they call “heterosexism” that is, at the end, heterosexuality itself.
The expression of gay sexual desire is, by itself, a matter of identity and therefore a matter of life or death ― the gay sexual desire is inegotiable in any possible way, and assumes itself as a unconditional and inalienable right. On the other hand, the sexual repulse from heterosexual side in relation to the homosexual act is considered by the gay activists as an unacceptable violence, and classified as a “crime” or “mental illness”.
Corollary
The gay cultural policy demands a compulsory elimination of any repulse regarding to the homosexual act from heterosexual side, that means the construction of a virtual culture, as it is impossible to coercively format a culture and/or change human biology. This means to decree and dictate the exclusive right of gays to sexual repulse.